Friday, September 20, 2013

Family

Let me just start out by saying that I love my Family so much. My Daughter..let me just tell you, she reminds me every single day that no matter how much we have to get done that day, that just sitting reading a book is good enough, or just playing with toys or even learning is something we shouldn't take for granted. She is always reminding me what is important in life. She helps me to take a step back and look at the little things.  

Now lets not forget about, my husband is the most amazing person and has helped me grow more than I could have ever hoped for. He may not be the most Romantic guy out there, but he makes up for it by being a totally amazing person. He knows what I need even before I know that I need it. But when I insist that I don't he just sits back and lets me figure things out for myself , and when I finally come to the conclusion that he knew I would, he never says I told you so. he just says I Love You and we move on. 

So now for the venting part of my blog. First off, I am not the type of person who likes drama. I actually try to stay as far away from it as I can and if there is drama I am the first person to try and play peacemaker.  I am not quiet sure I will actually post this, but I just need somewhere to put my feelings. First off, my husband was right, I need to take a facebook fast. There have been a lot of things going on with my Family this past year and it has been really hard on everyone. I thought that I was handling it pretty well. But today I decided to go browsing Facebook, Bad Idea, There was a post from someone bashing someone in my family, I wanted to say something but I decided that it would be best not too, so I decided to hide the post so I couldn't see it. So I continue scrolling down and wouldn't you know it, someone has decided to share this post that I was trying so hard to ignore, and not only that people (Family) started posting comments about not just the person in the previous post but about more of my family members. That is where I could not take it anymore, I went off on one of the post and told everybody to mind their own business. I am sick of Facebook being the place where everybody does there dirty work because they are not man enough to say it to the persons face so they go spreading things all over the internet about how someone is such a bad person. I am sorry people you DO NOT know what is going on with my Family, there are always two sides to every story and you my friends are only getting one side. But you don't really want to hear both sides so you will just bash the other side.Let me make it clear that I don't condone either part of the story and it is frustrating the things that have happened but I love both of my parents so much and that will never change. I just wish people would use social media for good instead of using it to spread negativity. The world doesn't need any more negativity.
 Anyways, so that is my vent about why I am taking a facebook fast. I love all of my family and I don't really feel like saying something that is going to make things bad between anyone so I figure staying away from facebook is probably the best thing to do. Wish me luck.

 You want to hear the funny part....John told me that I should take a facebook fast so that I wouldn't have to deal with any of this. Man he was sure right. Maybe I should start listening to my husband when he suggests something. :) 

Well Just because i haven't posted anything for a while I will add some pictures of my Amazing little family!!! 


3 comments:

HeritageoftheLord said...

Rika! I am fasting too! Sometimes you just need a break- mine is for different reasons but all kind of the same. I hope you are loving life! Little Macs is adorable.

LiMb FaMiLy said...

I'm sorry to hear about this Rika! Facebook and pretty much all other social media is such a joke! I agree and I hope everything is ok with your fam! I miss ya friend!

Gina D. said...

I was glad to see you are still blogging. I'm sorry that things flared up but hope that taking a break has been good for you and your little family.